By Simplicity’s Lorin Hamilton
So I was sifting through Netflix looking for something to watch other than Friends or Gilmore Girls, you need a break every now and then, when I came across this documentary on minimalism. I thought the summary looked interesting and decided to give it a try. Among other thought provoking ideas, there was one that stood out in my mind the most. What if I worried less because I have less?
I have always been told it is better to have more because more gives you protection. More gives you more joy. More gives you more financial freedom. More just gives you more everything. But what if having more gives you more worry, gives you more greed, gives you more jealousy or gives you more self-doubt. Is the ability to have more truly better than allowing yourself to have less?
I have been struggling lately with the idea that my life did not turn out exactly how I thought it would, which is an age-old cliché, I know. I guess I thought I would be happier. Or just comfortable with everything I have accomplished up until now. But so far, I feel overwhelmed with this need for having more, which is uncomfortable. I am just living day to day for the hope of getting to that “place” one day. How depressing is that?!
So, what if instead of constantly thinking of what I need to do to get more, I learned to live with less? Would that make me happier? Would that make me appreciate what I have and where I am at this point in life? Would I worry less about money? Would I just worry less in general? Now there’s a thought!
Project 333 is a movement or lifestyle mentioned in the documentary. It is the practice of only wearing 33 items within 3 months, hence 333. So you only have a total of 33 items including shirts, pants, shoes, outwear, and accessories. Underwear, workout clothes and pajamas don’t count toward the 33 item total. Can you imagine having a 11 foot by 11 foot walk-in closet with only 33 things in there?! I mean give me a break. There is no way a woman who works could have enough outfits to wear to work and for casual outings on the weekends to stay within the 33 item rule. However, I am painfully wrong. Tons of women are doing it and are making it work. Many, many Pinterest posts of the 333 capsule wardrobes are there to prove me wrong.
Being inspired by all of these women and the hype, I wanted to see if it would work. I wanted to see if living with less would give me more comfort with the “place” of life I am in. So the following Saturday, I forged my way into Project 333.
At the end of the day, I didn’t quite get to the 33 item total, but I did put more than half of the clothes in my closet in boxes. I also turned my hangers backward, so I would know at the end of 3 months if I really had worn all the items I had left in there.
I feel great! Like a big weight has been lifted. I walk into my closet and it is clean! I have always struggled with keeping my closet tidy, but now it is tidy all the time because hardly anything is in there. I love being able to quickly pick something out to wear in the mornings.
And the strange thing is, I don’t feel the need to get more stuff. I have everything that I could possibly need. Now instead of going shopping, I can go out and have more experiences other than the inside of the mall. The possibilities are endless. And that brings me happiness!
By having less, I can finally discover the feeling of being comfortable in the moment and not have those constant thoughts of needing more.
Watch out garage, you’re next!