Thanks to Simplicity, the documentary, Minimalism, was recently screened in Charlotte to a full house. And a full house, or more specifically, an overly full house is exactly what the film was about. My husband and daughter were my sidekicks for the evening-one, enthusiastic and one a bit reluctant. But when the lights came up, we all agreed that Minimalism was thought provoking, inspiring and a bit guilt-inducing.
The film documents the two Minimalists’ odyssey. From more is more, to less is more. From keeping up with the Jones, to charting one’s own path. And from piles of unused stuff, to owning just enough. Their journeys resulted in freedom- financial, emotional and physical. And their mission now is not to climb the corporate ladder, in the right suit with the right gadgets, but to inspire others to consciously examine what they own and why they own it. For the movie trailer click here.
In the spirit of Simplicity, each of us gives our single most important lesson from the film.
From the 30 year old:
Only hold on to things that bring value to your life.
There isn’t just one template for how to deal with possessions. Each of us has our own threshold for what is enough and what brings value to our life. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure. A collection of snow angels might make one person grab a trash bag but for someone else, it could be a treasured and tangible connection to a loved one. And how do you measure the value of something? Do you use it? Do you have space for it? Can you afford the time or money it would take to replace it if you ever decided you needed such a thing? No matter the value in absolute monetary terms, if the object doesn’t bring value to you, let it go. Paradoxically, your life will be enriched by having less.
From the 60 something male:
A big change is easier than small one.
As counter-intuitive as this may seem, there is neurobiology supporting it. Often the trigger or nudge is more compelling for a big change than a small one. We evolved as horders. Stockpiling worked in times of scarcity when basic needs were hard to meet but our biology betrays us now. Biology begets “buyology. With small changes rather than a sweeping change, there can be a feeling of continual deprivation. It’s like the addict who needs another hit. And this need for more precludes the feeling of contentment from having the “luxury of enough”.
From the 60 something female:
You think you own your stuff but your stuff really owns you.
We’re hardwired to feel loss more strongly than we feel gain. Letting go of things is more painful than acquiring them is pleasurable. We’re wired for dissatisfaction. Advertising and social media feed that dissatisfaction. Dubious claims of ‘New and Improved’ render the existing version unsatisfactory. Keeping up with the Jones is exhausting and expensive. We live in a junk culture where ‘more is more’. The cheaper, the better is the lifeblood of mass retailing. We can turn that around when buying fewer things, but better things becomes our habit. Remember the Chinese proverb, “Buy the best and you only weep once”.
Here’s one final thought from the film. You can never get enough of what you don’t really need because what you don’t need, no matter the quantity, will never satisfy.
And lastly, a possible mantra for those on their own minimalist odyssey-
“The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak.” Hans Hofmann, German abstract expressionist
By Robin McCoy